Your Wedding


We are not your regular run of the mill wedding officiants. Our ceremonies are far from ‘generic’. All of our ministers are ordained and most are also clairvoyants and healers. So our work for you is of a highly Spiritual nature. Consultations as well as the co creation of your ceremony is metaphysically rich. This is a key portion to aligning with your desires in the creation of your vows and/or written ceremony. We tailor your preferences to who you are as a Spiritual Being not just a physical entity. Ultimately, the space the Minister is holding for you and your partner during consultation and ceremony will help to usher in the energy of alchemy – the splendor of magic during your rite of passage.

You have come to us because you are ready to legally marry or remarry now that laws have changed or renew your marriage vows with the person you love but may not be interested in doing so in a church or under a specific religion.  We create a very unique and all encompassing ceremony specifically for marriage that honors the oneness and individual connection in spirit.

A phone or in person consultation will be arranged prior to the wedding date. Our minister will need to get to know you a little as a couple and will have specific questions that will help them write vows and/or any other writings for your sacred ceremony. If you are leaning towards any tradition that you would like included, please let your minister know. Our ministers come from different backgrounds and can sprinkle certain traditions into your ceremony on request.  If you wish to write your own vows please let your minister know. That is encouraged as it assists the intimacy of your special day.

When you call to inquire about a ceremony, please know we have several packages (varying prices) from the quicky 1 – 5 minute wedding to the most elaborate.


Take advantage of the energy of a full moon and plan your wedding for a time when it’s sitting high enough in the sky to see so you can not only feel it’s energy but see it’s beauty!



In many cases, a couple has lived and loved through all the peaks and valleys typical of a long term marriage, spending years building their lives together knowing that their union is perfect as it is AND worthy of a tremendous celebration. A ‘wedding’ per se, may not be the way to communicate what you feel is special about your relationship.

It’s not ‘marriage’ (documentation) that forms the bedrock for a healthy relationship it’s the love, commitment and intention of the participants. The energy of ceremony is transformative and a beautiful opportunity to speak of the importance and joy of your relationship as well as offering of appreciations to those joined together with you in this celebration.


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This is an old tradition being made anew and reminding us of the origin to the terms ‘tie the knot’ and ‘giving ones hand in marriage’.  It’s an alternative form of marriage. -Marriage deep in symbolic and spiritual meaning but without paperwork.

Some couples chose to have their hands bound together for part of the ceremony.  Here is an area where conscious selection of the materials they want to use is part of their intention – from ribbon to rope, leather to specially embroidered cloths or handkerchiefs and etcetera.

In some cultures hand fasting is either temporary or permanent.  -A marriage of ‘a year and a day’. If on day 366 the couple found they were incompatible and there weren’t any children they could part. (See our ‘Separation Ceremony’)

Historically, Hand fasting is very spiritual and dates back hundreds of years to Scottish, Native American Indian and Druid cultures. Your intention is what is binding in this rite of passage. These ceremonies are created for those who would like the sacred spiritual tradition but are either unable or not desiring the legal paperwork  such as polyamorous relationships.

You will have a consultation with the minister performing the ceremony to create vows or make decisions about any specific spiritual elements you want included in your ceremony. Please make a list of questions or things you want to ask your minister.


All of our ministers have been trained and/or degreed in a variety of modalities.  If you need a reading, personal healing, counseling, life or goal coaching or are interested in classes we will give recommendations. You may visit the professional website of the minister who performed your ceremony, or may choose another Bless & Clear Minister with whom you resonate for further services. Bless & Clear is not responsible for services outside of ministerial duties booked directly through the Bless & Clear Company Headquarters.